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Monday, March 30, 2015

Stand Up Speak Out


Alabama remains ground zero in the civil rights battle. Judge Callie Granade's January 2015 ruling finding Alabama's ban on same-sex marriage violated the equal protection and due process clauses of the Fourteenth Amendment carried on the tradition of strong female jurists in the state.

Being a female civil rights lawyer in Birmingham, I am proud to walk in the path cleared by so many courageous women, including Nina Miglionico.  She was was one of the first female lawyers in Alabama.  She fought tirelessly for segregation reform, equal rights for women, improvement of child labor conditions, and elimination of the poll tax.  Her story is truly an inspiration.

Jenna Bedsole, another Birmingham lawyer, is making a film to recognize Nina Miglionico's extraordinary story.  A recent al.com article discussed Jenna's efforts and need for funding to complete the project.  Nina's story needs to be heard so that it can inspire others to stand up and speak out for what is right. Please help Jenna make sure that Nina's story is remembered.


Stand Up, Speak Out - The Nina Miglionico Story from Ted Speaker on Vimeo.

Saturday, March 28, 2015

Be Still, My Golden Heart

Depositions suck. Thursday morning, I prepared for a second day of depositions in a nasty sexual harassment case. Exhibits littered my desk. Room temperature coffee fueled my marginal functionality. I couldn't find the video I needed that showed the creepy old man manager busting in on my client in the restroom. Cranky. That was me.

My cell phone rang. The sound of a ringing phone, especially my cell, elicits a negative Pavlovian response. Assuming it was a client who wanted to bypass my assistant, my hello didn't embrace the Southern hospitality that it should've. 

And then my day went from combative to celebratory.  I found out I was a 2015 Golden Heart® finalist.

The Golden Heart is the big-mama of writing contests for unpublished authors.  Sponsored by the Romance Writers of America©, the contest accepts approximately 1,200 manuscripts in eight genre categories, and the final round is judged by acquiring editors from publishing houses.  To paraphrase Ron Burgundy, it is kind of a big deal.

Keep your fingers crossed.  Magic City, the manuscript that I entered, was the first book I wrote.  The first book I completed (well, much like the Winchester Mystery House, for about two years it was the source of constant tinkering). Since finishing it, I have worked on to two other manuscripts (a political thriller and another urban fantasy).  I am humbled that others found Magic City special enough to allow me the honor and privilege to join so many wonderful authors as a Golden Heart finalist (click here to see all the fantastic ladies who are finalists).  

Now enough of that seriousness.  Here is something fun:



  

Saturday, February 1, 2014

February Goals (Inspired by Kelly Stone)

Here is step one in my goal to identify and achieve my goals I discussed in a blog post inspired by one of Kelly L. Stone's workshops.

Professional Goals for February

Writing - By the end of 2013, I did a good job in minimizing several commitments that had competed with productive writing time. For 2014, I want to make use of that hard-won time to gain an agent and finish two manuscripts.  In moving toward those goals, my February writing goals are to write 20,000 words this month AND identify the times/places where I am most productive in my writing.

Legal - Professionally, 2013 was a good year for me.  Several cases obtained results that thrilled me.  The problem was I was in a perpetual frenzy.  My goal for 2014 is to reduce the stress at work by better managing my time while matching the outcomes I achieved in 2013.  My February goal is to identify where I am losing productive time at the office and develop a schedule where I can keep manageable hours (no more going in before the sun rises and racing Cinderella home before the last stroke of midnight).


Personal Goals for February

My goal for the year, as it relates to my health and lifestyle is to be at a healthy weight (no way am I posting my actual weight here - not going to happen - never - ever - not even with weapons pointed at me) and claim more time for myself.

My goal for February as it relates to my health is try to ween myself off of soda/soft drinks (because we all know I am not ready or willing to give up wine) and exercise at least three times a week.


Home Goals for February

My goal for the year, as it relates to my home, is to be able to host the family Christmas gathering at my house.  This is a looooooooooooooooooong road to travel.  Everything, and I mean ev-er-ee-thang needs to be redone.

My goal for February is to have the house in shape by the end of the month to have contractors come in and give estimates.  This means lots and lots of cleaning.

I am going to comment every Sunday to post my goals for the week, and what I accomplished in the prior week.  Please check back to share suggestions and hold me accountable.  Without accountability, I will return to the sludge of slackdom that has held me hostage for decades.

Sunday, January 26, 2014

Goal!

You have to have goals. We all have them. We may not give them voice or right them down, but they are there. Well, it is time for me to pull mine out of the murky muck and make them reality.

The fabulous Kelly L. Stone presented her EMPOWERING YOUR MUSE workshop yesterday to my local writing group, and it has inspired me. She emphasized the success people found after writing down their goals. The simple of act of giving visual form to the goals increased the chance of achieving them. Normally, I would find that to be a bunch of hokum, but what I am currently doing isn't working, so I am going to give this a try.

My plan is to blog at the first of each month what my professional(legal and writing), personal (health and lifestyle) and home (have major renovation projects that need to be accomplished) goals for the month are.  Each week I will add in the comments my weekly goals geared to accomplish the monthly goals.  I bought a handy dandy red notebook (because I really like red) to keep in my purse for my daily goals.  My plan is to write down my goals for the next day in the notebook before I go to bed, then review them in the morning.  Check back frequently to see how I am doing (and hold me accountable).

And because you have to have goals, why not start by looking at Xabi Alonso making a goal (why - because he is so pretty, and this is an AMAZING goal!)

Wednesday, January 22, 2014

Mad, Bad and Dangerous to Know: Happy Birthday Lord Byron

Flamboyant. Passionate. Notorious. The original bad boy.

Today would have been Lord Byron's 226 birthday, but we still see his influences everywhere we look.

The Byronic hero is an irresistable archetype. The seductive, dark anti-hero steals our hearts. Despite his arrogance and self-destructive tendencies, we are drawn to his conflicted nature.

Jay Gastby. Jericho Barrons. Rhett Butler. Tony Stark. All flawed. All heartbreakers. All Byronic.

In celebration of the bad boys that we all love, share your favorite literary bad boy with us and tell us why.

Pleasure's a sin, and sometime's sin's a pleasure. -- Lord Byron (Don Juan)

Monday, November 11, 2013

Fighting Trial Fatigue

I have had four trials in the last ten weeks. That is a lot, if you are wondering. Too many, if you ask me.    Needless to say, writing (other than the legal kind) had to be put on pause while I kicked a little legal tail.

Thankfully, last week's Southern Magic Readers' Luncheon energized me. Being around that many writers and readers reminded me there is time to be found where I can write. I just have to be aggressive about hunting it down and defending it.  So, rather than give you a long blog post about the event, I am going to return to writing, but will leave you with the best goodie from the luncheon:  I met JEANIENE FROST!!!!!! I was able to stop hyperventilating long enough to post this pic:


Tuesday, August 27, 2013

To be or not to be? Should you use a pen name?


            Ladies and Gentlemen of the jury, Mrs. Leonard has accused my client of sexual harassment arising from the simple act of text messaging a picture of his pride and joy to her client. But yet, let me refer you to Defendant’s Exhibit One, her debut novel. Please highlight and circle every reference to the mattress mambo then render the verdict you find to be appropriate.

            And so begins a recurring nightmare I have that inevitably leads to the internal debate of whether I should use a pen name. I like my name. It’s mine. I answer to it when called. Sort of attached to it. But professional and privacy concerns make compelling arguments to become a superhero and adopt a secret identity. A nom de plume.

            In search of answers, I asked the wise women of Southern Magic who write under pen names for their advice. I posited five questions, and have summarized their responses:

1Why do you write under a pen name

The two primary reasons identified for writing under a pen name were personal privacy and professional anonymity.  Seems like I’m not alone in having a day job where my books could set tongues (and judgment) in motion.

However, more than one author responded the pen name was required by her publisher, either for purposes of branding (the author writing in multiple genres) or other reasons.

Unfortunately, more than one author noted her pen name came about because she'd experienced a stalker. In a world where information is a few key strokes away, their concerns are ones we should all share.

Finally, some indicated they went with a pen name because their true names were a little complicated or less marketable. Lewis Carroll (Charles Lutwidge Dodgson) and Joseph Conrad (Józef Teodor Konrad Korzeniowski) were in the same boat.

2How did you come up with your pen name?

Most authors chose derivations of their own name.  Some kept their first name while using their maiden names.  Others pulled from family nicknames.  A few used names of their favorite literary characters.  The common thread was that all the methods of choosing a name involved pulling from something personal.  Makes sense. If you are going to tie your writing career to an identity, make sure it means something to you.

One wise author pointed out the benefit not only of baby naming books but also the internet.  She gave the wise advise of searching domains for your possible pen name to make sure they would be available. Great idea! There is an actress who has my same name, and lawyers.com already owns the dot com url for name. 

3What are the pros of writing under a pen name?

Keeping your personal and professional life separate. A large number of the Southern Magic authors who responded extolled the freedom that the pen name provided them to write without the concern of what their friends, family and coworkers would think.

4What are the cons of writing under a pen name?

This is where the responses were great.  Here were some of my favorites:

·      I've had some Amazon bestsellers and have enjoyed some notoriety under my pen name, including best books of the year on various review sites. My latest release got a mention in USA Today and there's no one I can brag to about it.
·      Forgetting to answer to your pen name in a crowd.
·      You do have to get used to answering to a different name, though, and people who do know you under both names are never sure what to call you. I've been known to refer to myselves in third-person, which is kind of obnoxious but expedient.
·      In all honestly, I can't see many cons.  People change pen names so frequently now, due to the vagaries of the market or in order to write in a different genre, that many authors who began writing under their real name end up with a pseudonym at some point in their career.  I suppose that writing under your legal name offers some protection from someone attempting to copycat it, but other than that, it seems you should do what makes your personal situation easiest.

These answers also bring up the interesting etiquette question: when introducing an author who writes under a pen name in social situations, which name should you use? I always ask the author, but the few times I’ve forgotten I looked like the rudest person on the planet because I danced around the introduction until the author introduced herself.

5Any advice for those considering using a pen name?

The ladies said it best:
·      The time to do it is before you publish, when you're first starting to establish your "platform." You're marketing a brand, basically, so you need the brand established from the outset.
·      Keep it short and simple. If you are signing books, you don’t’ want a name that will take you a long time to sign.
·      Choose something that's easy to remember, easy to pronounce, and maybe slightly different from the "pack."  I've heard it said that one should choose a name close to the beginning of the alphabet to avoid "bookshelf fatigue."  Does anyone actually walk into a bookstore and look at all the books in a genre?  Or do they browse the first half of the alphabet and make some selections and then head to the check-out?  Something to think about, at least.  I've also heard that being close to a big name on the shelf, someone like Nora for example, certainly can't hurt your chance of being noticed.  In short, my advice is do what makes you and your family comfortable and happy.

What are your thoughts on writing under a pen name? I’d love to hear your answers and thoughts on these five questions.

Thank you to all the generous Southern Magic authors for the gift of their time and advice.